Family Matters

Holidays bring out the best in people – and the visiting relatives. I have just moved the office and the massage therapy room still looked a little bit like a MASH unit. My phone message, for a change, said I was off for two days before and after the holiday – but the calls just kept coming.

Despite a long history of scoliosis, this client had never had massage for the condition. She had enjoyed the occasional vacation massage here and there.

Holiday massages tend to be emergencies, anyways. This time I had a referral from a client. This was a young lady with mild scoliosis, who between funny positions on the couch and airplane rides and long conversations with the parents had woke up to find that turning to the left was impossible. O Joy.

While going over her intake, I suggested she do regular massage to keep discomfort in check and possibly to help prevent the scoliosis from getting tighter.  "How do I find a massage therapist who specializes in scoliosis?” she asked. I felt a bit surprised by the question. I explained that so many massage clients have slight to mild scoliosis I consider scoliosis therapy part of the mainstream of therapeutic massage.

Perhaps look for a more therapeutic massage person, I suggested.  I felt on thin ground. All massages, in my mind, are therapeutic, even the ones where intent is solely to relax the person while on vacation. That is a pretty awesome skill.

This client comes from an area of the country with very minimal requirements for massage licensing. It is also known for having lots of people who are into a kind of flower-child view of life and massage.

“I don’t really mind that stuff as long as it is not the only thing in the massage,” she said. “I would also like to get some work done on my problem spots.”

Oh heck, I might as well dive into the pool. “I understand what you are saying,” I said. “I’ve had those massages where the person giving them is off on their own trip and not that into why you are there. It is no guarantee, but if you look for someone with boards or more education than the minimum, you have a chance of getting someone into therapy.”

Good advice, I thought, for a person looking for therapeutic massage. But as a therapist, I felt pretty uncomfortable. Rarely, I have had great massages from people with little education or experience. But the norm is I get a bad massage from someone who has no idea what they are doing.

It is very controversial in our field. Is a great relaxation massage at a resort not therapeutic? Is a highly trained therapist capable of being clueless? What about those folks who chant and tap in to the energy of the universe? Are their skills just different?

The answer, I think, is client by client. If clients want a massage therapist to focus on their scoliosis, they need to find someone they believe will help them. Oh heavens, I’ve said the famous “good fit” cliché.

Clichés, however, tend to be a bit truthful. “Finding a massage therapist is like finding a dentist,” I told her. “You can do all the research, look at qualifications, get referrals, but you won’t know if you like them until you are sitting in that chair.”